Second Line Etiquette: What Every Guest Should Know Before Joining the Parade

A second line parade is one of the most joyful, unforgettable traditions you can experience at a New Orleans wedding. Led by a brass band, with the bride and groom carrying parasols and guests waving handkerchiefs, the second line is a celebration of life, love, and community.

If you’ve never joined one before, you may be wondering: What exactly do I do? Don’t worry—we’ve got you covered. At New Orleans Wedding Planners LLC, we love introducing couples (and their guests) to this cherished tradition. Here’s everything you need to know before you hit the streets and dance behind the band.

🎺 1. Follow the Leaders

The couple always leads the parade, often carrying decorated parasols. Your job is simple: follow their lead! Dance, clap, and wave your handkerchief as you join in the celebration.

🕺 2. Dance Like Nobody’s Watching

There’s no wrong way to second line. Dance, strut, or just wave your napkin in rhythm—it’s all about joy. Guests don’t need to know steps or choreography, just let the music guide you.

✨ Pro Tip: The brass band provides the beat—follow along and have fun!

🧻 3. Wave Your Handkerchief Proudly

Guests are given handkerchiefs (sometimes customized with the couple’s names or monogram) to wave high as they march. It’s part of the tradition and looks amazing in photos.

🚶 4. Stay with the Group

Second lines are usually escorted by police to manage traffic. Stick with the parade and follow the route so everyone stays safe and together.

🎭 5. Embrace the Spirit of NOLA

The second line is more than just a parade—it’s about community and celebration. Guests are encouraged to cheer, laugh, and join in wholeheartedly.

✨ Extra Touch: Local guests sometimes hand out beads, parasols, or Mardi Gras masks to keep the festive mood alive.

❌ A Few Don’ts to Remember

• Don’t wander away from the route.

• Don’t block the band or the couple—they’re the stars of the show.

• Don’t be shy—second lining is about participation, not perfection.

Final Thoughts

A second line parade is the heartbeat of a New Orleans wedding—joyful, spirited, and uniquely ours. With just a little etiquette, guests can fully enjoy this unforgettable tradition and help make the couple’s day even more magical.

✨ At New Orleans Wedding Planners LLC, we coordinate every detail of your second line, from permits to bands to handkerchiefs—so all you and your guests need to do is dance and celebrate.